Dave Dishman

Guidance from Overlooked Men and Women of the Bible

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Better Know Your Audience

I learned early on as a communicator to analyze my audience. A good speaker tells different jokes to a pile of middle-school boys than to a roomful of their mothers (of course, the same jokes go big with their fathers). But if mom’s in the audience, a wise communicator tempers the lingo about gases and smells.

Solomon dedicated his new temple in grand fashion, partying for 14 straight days and sacrificing thousands and thousands of sheep and cattle. The sheer scale of it all boggles my mind.

Although Solomon created a magnificent house for the Lord, he knew the Lord wouldn’t live there. All the pomp and circumstance and magnificence and ceremony wouldn’t insure the Lord stuck around. So Solomon asked this of the Lord:

May your eyes be open toward this temple night and day. Hear the supplication of your servant and of your people Israel when they pray toward this place. Hear from heaven, your dwelling place, and when you hear, forgive.

I so appreciate this prayer of humility. Solomon knew the Lord cannot be manipulated with a fancy building. He asked for two things the Lord grants the humble—to hear and to forgive.

It makes me think of a prayer I learned long ago, and Christians have prayed for ages:

Lord Jesus Christ have mercy on me, a sinner.

If like me you’re sometimes not sure what to pray, and like Solomon you understand your audience, then this is a good place to start.

1 Kings 8:29-30 in reading the Bible cover to cover in 2022

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Bigger is Better With Pickup Trucks

My wife and I return to an unresolved disagreement whenever a guy in a massive pickup truck roars past us. She holds a peculiar theory that no one really needs such a big truck, but the vehicle merely masks an underlying anxiety about the driver’s masculinity. I disagree, thoughtfully disposed toward the view that the power of the truck reflects the power of the man behind the wheel—and thus I need one.

We usually hold this discussion while parked in our tiny Nissan Leaf between two beefy rigs. This summer she deftly added surging gas prices to her argument, leaving me stymied at the moment. Maybe in 2024 I’ll bring it up again.

Solomon shared my view that bigger is better. After he built a magnificent temple to the Lord, he built an even bigger palace for himself.

The temple was finished in all its details…he spent seven years building it. It took Solomon thirteen years, however, to complete the construction of his palace.

The writer places these lines back to back, intending for us to notice the juxtaposition of Solomon’s buildings. The palace took twice as long to build because it was twice as big. A king needs to show his power and Solomon spared no expense.

In these few lines we glimpse the underlying issue that plagued Solomon—his pride. As his reign progressed, he slowly turned from adherence to the ways of the Lord to the pleasures of power and wealth (most famously watching his foreign wives worship the demonic gods of their homelands in the promised land).

Even as Solomon placed his magnificent buildings on solid foundations, he allowed the foundation of his kingdom to crumble. An ego never sated moves ever away from the Lord.

Still, I don’t think this has anything at all to do with big shiny pick-up trucks, so I’m keeping my hopes alive. I’m sure Solomon would have owned a dozen.

1 Kings 6 & 7 in reading the Bible cover to cover in 2022

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Fight the Battle Well

Over the years in ministry I’ve grown to value the Pastoral Epistles more and more. These three letters written to two young church planters yield tons of wisdom for anyone hoping to minister to others.

Timothy received the two letters we read as 1 & 2 Timothy, and Paul sent to Titus the letter we read in his name. These two missionaries launched churches, argued against false doctrines, and set up governing structures. The work proved arduous and often discouraging. Paul’s letters brought hope as they slogged away.

Early in his first letter Paul reminded Timothy of his calling: Timothy, my son, I am giving you this command in keeping with the prophecies once made about you, so that by recalling them you may fight the battle well, holding on to faith and a good conscience.

The first step to fight the battle well? Remember why you’re here. Paul urged Timothy to recognize God’s call on his life and gain energy for the fight. If you remember, Timothy grew up in the faith under a godly grandmother and mother. Paul brought to mind that legacy Timothy carried.

Hang in there. You’re not alone. More people think of you and pray for you than you realize. Remember who’s with you and fight the battle well.

1 Timothy 1 in reading the Bible cover to cover in 2022

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Read the Book Before You Talk About the Book

Ever been in a book discussion group with someone who didn’t read the book, but felt free to chatter anyway? Major pet peeve. If I’m leading the group, I remind them that they can listen but not comment—you have to read the book (like all the rest of us did) to get to talk. If I’m participating but not leading, I plot my way out of this “reading group” that allowed a non-reader in the room.

The church in Thessalonica experienced a similar problem. They drew a crowd of people who hung around for free food and eventually stopped working altogether. It’s not clear how this started, except that the church folks, in applying a love-your-neighbor ethic, provided so generously a number of loungers took advantage.

Paul heard of the problem down in Corinth. Frustrated, he addressed it in a letter to the church: The one who is unwilling to work shall not eat.

If you’re not willing to do an honest day’s work—no soup for you.

Notice Paul does not say unable to work. Certain people cannot work due to physical or mental disabilities or age or illness or station of life (think widows). Those the church cared for and served.

But these busybodies hung around all day spreading gossip and getting under everyone’s skin. Much better for them to work hard and come home tired, too worn out to create issues. Plus, with their income they could now contribute to the outreach efforts of the church.

I don’t know what happened to the slackers of Thessalonica. I imagine they slunk away, looking for a handout somewhere else.

Paul’s principle remains sound. I benefited from good mentors in my life who helped me learn to work hard, like my parents and grandparents and my first boss (thank you, Tony). We build strength into the lives of others when we insist they do the work else before reaping the benefits.

And if you join a book club, read the book before you talk about the book.

2 Thessalonians 3 in reading the Bible cover to cover in 2022

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