For a season my wife and daughter and I watched American Idol. I enjoyed the show, especially the expertise of the professional musicians serving as judges. They caught things my amateur ears missed. I always liked when Randy Jackson, a long time judge, cocked his head during a performance. It meant he was hearing something interesting. Randy then either praised the singer or coached them in a better direction, always thorough in his listening before giving feedback.

Unfortunately, I’m not always thorough in my listening. I make speaking too soon a regular habit. But life is much better when I listen to the end of the performance.

The Apostle James encouraged his scattered audience to develop an ear for listening: Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.

Quick to hear. The phrase points to habits of leaning in, cocking the ear, catching every word, and asking clarifying questions. The phone placed out of reach with its temptation to scroll. A good listener—attentive, interested, engaged and patient—makes for a strong friend and powerful confidant.

The Lord is quick to hear us, for which I remain ever grateful. We represent him admirably to friends and neighbors and spouses and children and co-workers when we listen to the end with them as well.

James 1:19-20

Photo by Eric Mok