Guidance from Overlooked Men and Women of the Bible

Lord, Give Me Wisdom!

I pray this prayer a lot, usually when faced with a challenging decision or interacting with a difficult person. I prayed it more than once when unsure of my location while traveling overseas (i.e. lost). Of course, I prayed it often while raising kids, and I’m sure my wife prays it all the time when dealing with me.

So I was intrigued to read James’s words on wisdom—Who is wise and understanding among you? Let them show it by their good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom.

A few beats later James shares a list of characteristics of wisdom. It’s worthy of a longer look, but here’s a few things that stand out to me.

Wisdom from heaven is first of all pure, impartial and sincere. When I’m making a decision, do I have ulterior motives? Am I truly after wisdom from the Lord, or am I subtly hoping to manipulate the situation toward my desired ends?

Wisdom from heaven is submissive. When considering which move to make, am I malleable in the hands of the Lord? Am I willing to listen to wise people? Might I change direction based on any of this feedback?

Wisdom from heaven is full of mercy. A reminder of the definition of mercy—compassion or forgiveness toward someone whom it is within one’s power to punish or harm. No part of me naturally leans toward mercy. I desperately need wisdom from the Holy Spirit when mercy is called for.

Lord, give me wisdom!

For as long as I draw breath this prayer will pass my lips. I’m grateful to James for insight into how my prayer might actually look when answered.

James 3 in week forty-one of reading the Bible cover to cover

Photo by Cherry Laithang

1 Comment

  1. Anonymous

    YES! Asking for wisdom is probably THE number one request I get from my kids. And it probably ranks in the top 5 for myself.
    I LOVE how you pinpointed the attributes of wisdom:
    pure, impartial, sincere, submissive, merciful

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